Hi guys, so I’ve been with my by for nearly 4 years. He’s my first boyfriend and second sex partner. I’m young (23) and I guess im hitting that stage of sexual curiosity with kinks and what not (or the “hoe” phase idk) I have brought it up with my partner but the problem is, he’s not keen on any of them basically. So my other problem, we have a kid together and I do see a future with him but I want to explore sex, which he isn’t very keen on doing. So do I suck it up or try pestering him? Ask for a temporary break so I can get my freak on? I don’t know what to do, has anyone been in a similar situation?