Like how to know if I’m not. I often feel uncomfortable sharing too much about myself, fear of being judged. I’m okay with it. Sometimes I don’t join conversation but I stay updated to see how things are going…
I am be there and read everything, every conversation online, but since I’m mostly quiet, they might not even aware that I am there and read or participate?? Or they might??. I’m with them and I remember little details like birthdays, sleep schedule, their time if they live in other nations.
Some people seems to be quiet or not respond much to me when I speak. But I was with them the whole time, I just not say anything… until I feel like to say anything, which either to show care towards that person or understanding something.
Sometimes I take other people’s problem as my own and ask serious questions about what’s going on in details…
I don’t want people to find me creepy. How to know if they already think so, how to know if they don’t think so? Or if this is actually okay, and the group is just full of lonely people that when I ask them something personal, they stunt?
If they think so, what should I do to change it?