My boyfriend went on a holiday with male friends in October last year. His friend ‘got with’ 2 girls (at least) on the trip, and it appeared that my bf was wingmanning the particular friend.
A few months later, I find out that this friend is having a baby with a woman he was supposedly not in a committted relationship with at the time of the trip. However, the timeline does not add up as they both agreed to try for a baby and he is excited about having her child.
I now find the behaviour on the trip extremely questionable and feel really bad for the other girl as she is having a child with a man she doesn’t know is a cheater.
My bf point blankly states that he doesn’t give a shit and it’s none of his business. It’s hard to talk to him about this as that is his stance, but I find it worrying that he doesn’t seem to apply any moral compass to his friends actions. I can’t help but worry he has more of a lax attitude towards it than me – if it was my friend I would at least express disapproval towards the friend.
What do you guys think about your partners attitude to the fidelity of their friends?