I (27F) went on a great date with a guy (32M) two weeks ago. His friend came up to me at a singles event, said I was his friend’s type, and gave me his instagram. I reached out to him and we went on a date that weekend. The date was 12 hours, ending with meeting up with some of his friends. At the end of the date, when we were parting ways, he mentioned he had just gotten out of a 1.5 year relationship two months ago 😬 I expressed my hesitation because this isn’t my first rodeo with that. He basically said he ended it because she loved him more than he loved her.
Throughout the date he was making comments about how he would love to show me around his home city (about an hour away) and he initiated planning the second date the next day after our first date. At first, due to our schedules, it was going to be five weeks before we could see each other again. Luckily my plans changed and I’m going to travel to his city next weekend. He has already planned out the day for us.
It feels impossible to me that this guy could already be over his ex. Either way, it feels like a red flag. Am I wasting my time with this?