TL;DR
I 25M and my gf 25F thinks I got her pregnant during our trip but we did not do it. She said she has gained weight and has not had her period for 3 months. I have multiple reasons she may not be pregnant. #1 She did not have morning sickness/ nausea she got a healthy appetite and energy during the trip. #2 I am a big guy, she cannot move me to do it herself when we are asleep. #3 stress from work that may give her symptoms of pregnancy #4 she has a history of blood-related illnesses, especially on the women's side that she may have #5 If she is pregnant, it is not mine. She works a lot and she may have gotten pregnant by another guy before or after the trip.
I need advice.
Hello Reddit, I am not sure where or how to post so I just thought it would be here. I 25M and my gf 25F accuses me of getting her pregnant during a 4 day trip outside of town that my parents and I invited her to, 3 months ago. WE have been together for 7 years. We stayed in a hotel with one room and two twin beds, one for my parents and one for my gf and me. I dont think I am the only guy who does this to their girl, but sometimes I can be a little too frisky, grabby, and close to my gf like slapping her booty or trying to look under her shirt. I restrained myself when we sleep although what I wanted was to hug and cuddle and put a pillow in between our crotches so I won't get hard. Except she doesnt want any physical contact at all and apparently, I also snore loudly, so often my gf kicks or elbows me to wake me up. The last night of the trip, my gf allowed me to hug her through the entire night. My gf said that she is 3 months pregnant, and the trip was the time we made the baby, except I dont remember us doing it during the trip, because I strongly restrained myself during the trip. She said that she had gained weight and had not gotten her period in 3 months. Here is the thing though, she did not take a pregnancy test to be sure if it is a pregnancy or not. She told me not to speak my mind about the situation, nor should I say any idea or recommendation that opposes her that she is not pregnant. To me, its not enough symptoms to be considered pregnant.
Number of reasons, Reason #1: Every time we eat, especially during breakfast on the trip she had a healthy appetite, and she finished everything on her plate every morning. Also when travelling, the majority of the ride she has been eating. Morning sickness/nausea should have a big play in the symptoms considering it happens the first thing when confirmed pregnant in the morning or anytime of the day, it is difficult to resist and that also supports not having an appetite because of the nausea, except she eats everything handed to her and is very energetic throughout the trip.
Reason #2: I am a big guy who weighs somewhere in the overweight, my gf is petite and has a scooter, she cannot push her scooter without any help and I am heavier than her scooter. She cannot possibly maneuver me into any positions that allow her for me to penetrate her while I was asleep, upright or on the side. Not to mention the struggle, noise, and commotion she would have caused, either my parents or I would have woken up from what she was doing.
Reason #3: My gf may have too much stress from her work. My gf works for a small local production studio that just received a big break. They create movies and theater, one of their short film won multiple awards. They showed the short film in the local cinema and have multiple short plays, which are performed by actors from local high schools who want to try acting since it's a short film. They have traveled to various locations, primarily in the wilderness but also in public places, to shoot the movies and take pictorials. However, right after the studio's big break, they had an infighting among the high school actors and the director and crew. It has been going on for months. My gf is in the middle of it, she has friends from both sides and just wants to make peace. The stress from her work might be the main reason for her other symptoms, for me, that is.
Reason #4: The symptoms my gf has, do not automatically mean she is pregnant, she could have a serious illness, considering her family has a history of blood-related illnesses that she could have gotten, especially among the women on her side of the family. Considering she has no absolute evidence that she is pregnant, the symptoms do not mean directly to pregnancy, it could be a sickness that she is allowing to progress because she thinks she is pregnant without taking a pregnancy test to be sure.
Reason #5: If she is pregnant, it is not mine. In reason #3, she works in a production studio that creates movies and theater. They have traveled to various locations, primarily in the wilderness and public places, to shoot the movies and take pictorials. It is not impossible to do it fast, in places like the wilderness and public places, and a job that requires teamwork with various groups of people. My gf says I got her pregnant during the trip, but I honestly restrained myself during the trip because I dont want to get in trouble for having sex with my gf during a family trip and the fact that my gf doesnt want any physical contact, either. However, my gf's work requires her to be there the majority of the day, to the point of late-night going back home. Although she is not there daily, it's every other day. Before the trip, she had 2 whole weeks working in a pictorial in various locations. After the trip, she spent another 2 whole weeks working. In July, she spent 3 weeks working with various people and again spent the majority of the day and late night going back home. The only time my gf and I saw each other before and after the trip was 4x. First, in June, before the trip, we had coffee in the afternoon. The second was after the trip, still in June, we had lunch because we had the time. The third and fourth, this was in July and August, were a date and a movie. The time is in par when she said she thinks she is pregnant during the trip, but also when she is working, before and after the trip, it makes sense, right?
The last reason was a little hard to explain but I hope you got the idea.
So, Reddit, I need help. These are the things I wanna say to my gf, except she doesnt want to hear or consider anything, of course, the last reason will be the last resort if my gf dont make sense of what she thinks and says about the situation. I am very anxious in every situation that can happen. My gf might be pregnant, very sick, or got pregnant by somebody else. I just need some confirmation or advice on whether what I think is true or not, just something. Thank you