hi all, i’d love to know your take on this
i met a lady a year ago when we started working in the same department
we got very close, at first as friends and then it developed to more. but she was (and still is) in a long distance relationship with someone else
she pursued me hard and wanted to have a relationship with me, but, because she was already involved, i went hot and cold many times about it
pulled and pushed her a lot bc i was conflicted and well… things became strained and we decided to part ways although in the same friend group
i really care for her and our friendship, and i feel she still has her guard up with me sometimes. why? i’m not interested in her romantically anymore, and i don’t think she wants me like that as well
i’m genuinely curious why there’s something uncomfortable on her side sometimes, why is that?