I got back from a holiday 5 days ago. During that holiday I had a bit of a fling with one of the girls I was away with. She’s part of my friends friend group and we had sex a few times while we were there. It also felt like there could be something more there but I wasn’t sure. She slept in my bed with me every night the last 4 nights of our holiday.
She’s still talking to me over text. But I’ve kinda invited her to two things since. Once thing to bear in mind though is that she’s got an ear infection. But she’s still going out and doing things.
The first was saying she should come over and I’d make her dinner coz she didn’t feel great and no one was in her flat. She said no because she had netball that evening and had already committed.
Second thing was today when I said she should come to a rugby game with me in September. She again said it was nice but she’s already got her friends bday weekend that weekend.
All valid reasons. But she’s not really offered up alternatives.
I guess I just don’t know how to continue. She’s not exactly stopping replying. And there’s still a bit of flirting. But the lack of alternative options makes me think she’s just not interested in anything now we’re back.
I have told her my long term hope was to have a gf (but said it’s quite early for that obviously) but that was because she asked what I wanted when i asked if she had any space for me when we’re back from holiday. While we were away.
Not sure if she’s just being friendly.i don’t want to make myself look like an idiot.
Tl;dr was on holiday with a girl and we had a bit of a summer romance. Now we’re back im not sure wha to do