I (F25) graduated from med school and going to start working as a doc next month. My bf (M23) graduated from sports (i dont know the right term in eng but he is a PT) is going to start as a PT in a very popular GYM. I need to take an exam next August to choose my major and I want psychiatry which needs high exam results so I need to study real hard and I know that. Problem is I procrastinate a lot, I am aware it is bad for me and I have to stick to a plan but I graduate 1 month ago and I studied a lot for 6 years in med school and before that I also study hard to get in the med school so I feel burnout kinda thing for last year. My bf always talking about how i should study and asking how much I studied that day for everyday. If I say I didn’t study, he gets really upset and shut himself down from me. I know I should be grateful for that but I saw that kind of behavior from my mom for my entire life and it is stressing me out, I don’t want that controlling side of a relationship, I need emotional support side of it. He always studies hard for his future because being PT is not getting them bright future and most of them facing problems of earning money in my country, but he came to a good place by getting licences and certifications. So I understand why he wants me to study for my and our future but I feel overwhelmed by life for a long time and to be honest I am already a doc so I am going to earn some good money to live, and I am at a point to let my dreams go if I need to work real hard because i really feel like it doesn’t worth it. I don’t think ı am right about my thoughts but i don’t know how can i fix myself and should i try hard for this relationship or does he deserve better? I tried to talk gpt because i dont really have any friends left since i graduated, but it only support my answers so i thought i can get some other opinions here. Sorry for my broke english, please ask if u didn’t understand.
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TL;DR; i have an important exam but i procrastinate a lot and my bf getting upset about it and shut himself down from me but i already earn okay money for our lives, is it an wrong relationship for us?