To preface, we live together in an apartment about 15 minutes away from my college. We own two cats and share everything, including money, time, bed, food, etc. We have been dating for 3 years now; we started dating in highschool and moved in after my freshman year of college.
We rarely fight, and dont have any significant issues, our relationship is pretty normal and very stable. I am a full time college student and she is part time online while working full time.
The main reason I am here asking this question is because I have felt the spark fading for a while. There were times before where I tried to leave but was told why abandon a stable relationship with no real issues. I tried to make it work but always come back wanting to leave.
I love her, and wish to cause her no pain, but even basic things like physical affection, kissing, cuddling, dont feel good to me and feel awkward. She will talk about kids and marriage and when I imagine a future I just cant see it. It’s so hard because we share everything in our apartment and I cant imagine the logistics, and I also dont want to hurt her because she hasnt done anything wrong…
Should I continue to try and make things work or accept that the relationship is not meant to be?
TLDR; I dont feel any spark left but she hasnt done anything wrong, do I leave or stay?