I've reached the end of my 20s, having only one long-distance relationship. She didn't treat me that great, cheated on me, then broke up with me the next day. She said it was my fault.
I met my last date online over 2 years ago. She yelled at me a lot and turned out to be married.
I deleted my dating apps after my self-esteem tanked and I got severely self-conscious. I am usually too nervous to approach women in public, so I haven't been on a date since.
Connecting with other people has always been nerve-racking and difficult for me, so I don't have any friends around either.
I signed up for social events and tried to say hi to strangers in public a few times, but they usually seemed creeped out or just ingore me. I probably come off really weird and jittery. Also, I think I look sickly and ghoulish. Maybe my appearance repulses people too.
It seems like no one wants me around. I feel disposable and unworthy of love.
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You can either improve or give up buddy, not much else
Is this just a self pity post?
Work on yourself, it sounds like you dont love yourself. So why would a romantic partner love you if you dont love who you are?
Honestly, just take a break and do things and make you gain your confidence again. Then when you feel confident again try again.
I don’t like guys who “try”. Just be you, have a chat about what you like and be normal.
Dostoevsky, welcome back!
i doubt it’s your appearance. I think it isn’t your fault, probably. I think it’s everyone else. most people suck. just be patient. it is a good idea to join groups.