I think I need to leave my situation. I have a child with my partner that doesn’t help me financially, he says I should ask but I don’t feel like I should need to ask for money to provide for our child. He doesn’t spend time with his child he will hold him for a few mins in the day and that’s about it. He’s always outside doing stuff which is cool I have no issue but he’s out for hours and hours while I do everything. I cook our child food I take him to his appointments I clean I do all these things and he does nothing for me. I feel used for sex he only bothers with me late at night and wants sex but I’m quite stand offish as I don’t feel that connection. He doesn’t want to make memories eg. Go on holiday days out together. When I do go out on holidays it’s with his mum never him. The more I right this out I realise I am the biggest mug for putting up with this for so long.