Im with my first real gf and things are going steady. Ive devloped a bad thought pattern though as i imagine, almost daily at this point, that she will get bored of me and want to break things off. Im a boring and quiet person and i think this is feeding this fear. I guess i worry that im not keeping her "entertained" enough or something. I really love her and this is really frustrating me. Is it ok to get cozy in a relationship like this and for things to get "boring" or do things need to stay fresh for relationships to last?