Hi! I’ve been talking to someone who’s been very nice, which I know is the bare minimum but new for me. Things have been going well but he has an ex who is extorting him, she often threatens to humiliate him professionally or interpersonally. It seems they have a fear based connection still, they broke up almost 2 years ago and sometimes I feel he’s enabling some bad behavior by reacting to her, but then I’m not sure if the response is warranted? I’m very confused. I am thinking about just being friends but I really like him as a person. It feels like I’m pretending to just be friends hoping we can still be something. I’m not sure honestly. The unhealthy part of me wants to just keep going but she does scare me. She sent me a really nasty message the other day, it was sad. Just commenting about my body and stuff. Idk what to do. I think he feels guilty and doesn’t want to hurt me either.