So I have texted briefly with a guy (40 m) I matched with on bumble. I noticed he asked me boring questions (what did you eat today) while I was asking meaningful questions. I pointed this out and suggested we start asking meaningful questions to get to know each other better. He confessed that he texted me mostly on ”autopilot” which I could sense.
During the conversation afterwards I didn’t reply to his two questions because I felt I don’t have the energy to engage in pointless questions (yes they were still pointless but I guess he think he made an effort). So I changed the subject. He then wrote something about me not having any charm and tact and then told me it was a joke when I got offended. He apologized for the ”joke”. He really wants another chance. What would you do?
I admit I criticized his questions because I wanted to make the conversation flow, but he responded with criticizing me as a person. I think that’s differently. Would you give him another chance?