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29F i know this is far from a unique complaint, but god…i am SO tired of being constantly propositioned for sex from strangers. the barrage is so exhausting and demoralizing.
having a pity party because a guy i knew in high school reached out two weeks ago. we’ve chit-chatted some with him saying multiple times he wanted to meet up…but he never actually asked me out. he’s always been nice and very respectful and able to hold a decent conversation with (what i thought was) interest.
yesterday was his birthday, and i texted at 12pm to wish him a good day. within minutes of talking, he randomly confessed that he “wants to do things to me” and has been fantasizing about it looking at my photos. it’s made me feel so gross…i don’t wanna know if some guy i knew 12 years ago is jerking it to my regular-degular IG photos (i.e. i post nothing explicit)
i don’t need a marriage proposal for christ’s sake…maybe just a SINGLE drink together first? a chance to feel out the vibes??? makes a girl feel like a piece of meat, like damn, you weren’t interested in me as a person at alllllll. just a stranger wasting my time for TWO weeks.
just needed to rant because i think he’s ghosted when i told him i wasn’t looking for hookups with strangers (with the qualifier that i think he’s hot and am still open to getting to know each other before hooking up)
all that said, what are we drinking tonight? LOL i have heavy pour of maker’s