I am (25F) thinking of ending my relationship with my boyfriend (32M). We are dating for about a year now, he has drinking problems, currently hasn't been drinking for a few months .
he's trying to get his act together, he really is trying to be better but it's almost like he doesn't know how.. he can't seem to have the understanding that his actions had a huge effect on me, all the fights, the yelling,the disrespect, the lying..all of it.
He thinks as long he's trying now it makes everything ok..Is it normal? Am I over reacting? I am proud of him for making the change but I can't let go of the past.. quite literally still have nightmares about some things he did and said..
So,am I overreacting?
TL;DR boyfriend got sober, I can't let go of things that he did said under the influence, considering leaving him