They’re dead; they were caught fooling around with the wrong person (ex-friend’s girl).
Her kid just started at the same school as mine. She said hi to me but looked super uncomfortable. So I’m not going to hold it over her head.
Nothing interesting. She’s an average soccer mom type with three kids. Seems happy.
I befriended her on FB to see what her life is like now. She caused a lot of grief in my life and that helped shape my personality, so you can say she had a huge impact on my life. But after seeing her normal day to day life, I lost interest rather quickly and deleted her. (By the time I found her, I was over the trauma, so I think that contributed to my lack of feelings about it.)
He’s a cop now 🙃
She was visibly pregnant at our high school graduation. Had her daughter later that summer.
As far as I know, the baby’s father left her, she’s still working a dead end job at the rec center in our hometown, and she might’ve gone to community college but I doubt it.
Meanwhile I’ve got my master’s degree, work my dream job and it’s paying VERY well, am happily married, and have a nice apartment in a nice area with my amazing husband.
I don’t care.
I didn’t have one. Everyone at my HS was pretty nice, from what I experienced. And I was a juicy target for a potential bully – fat, pimply, frizzy hair, braces, outdated glasses, very shy and socially awkward. Still, nothing. Not a single negative comment or unpleasant incident I can remember.
Sorry, not really an answer to your question. But I just never see this perspective reflected online so felt a need to share it. Kids being cruel assholes doesn’t have to be an inevitable fact of life.
One of them left a comment on my public Throwback Thursday album. She ended our friendship 25+ years ago with a protracted “silent treatment” campaign.
Since she loves the silent treatment so much, I was nice enough to not respond. No like, no block; just didn’t acknowledge her. Hope she had fun Googling me.
Have I let it go? Nope; I’m all set for the next 25 years!
I’m not friends with her on social media because fuck her but she’s a teacher at the school district we all attended which doesn’t surprise me because her mom works for the school district and her mom is just as awful too.
Saw that he was still alive and talking at the thirty year reunion.
First time he had looked me in the eyes since I hit him on the side of the head with an armload of hardback books, and left him on the floor of the gym.
He’s an alcoholic working a dead end job in his home town
That fucker still shows up in my dreams 40 years later. In every one of them, I kill him. One of the reasons I’m taking ketamine.
I think he works at McDonalds, in a different town now. And the other one still lives in the same town and works at a bar. Can’t help but chuckle that they haven’t done anything notable in their lives. Jerks.
No idea.
My high school bully was my sister and I haven’t seen, talked to, or heard from her since 1991 and I couldn’t care less.
Died fifteen years ago. Boating accident- it was sad, he left behind a daughter.
2 are dead. One by overdoes (he and I actually went to prom together but that’s a whole other story) and one by pneumonia. Another one is still living in our home town and I heard she recently made the big move from working at the local grocery store to the bank lol… I wish nothing but the worst for her
Edit: Fuck u Stephanie!
All of her friends cut her off by the time we graduated high school. Even her bff who used to gang up on me with her.
Just shows how awful of a human being she truly was
Doing well for themselves. I’m glad they changed. they also apologized to me.
I’m doing better, thank you!
She still believes I stole her bf in which I have never met in my life and to be honest I have never met any of her bf. I only know this because I’m related to her uuggghhh
Well one of my bullies got hit by a vehicle, it was a hit and run and it was in the local news. Honestly I don’t care about this person but at the same time I don’t feel empathy towards them.
Don’t know, don’t care.
Omg I recently checked and he’s still fine as fuck! This man use to tease me for having big lips in kindergarten. Is that considered a bully? It def felt that way when I was 5. I remember always dreading seeing him because I knew he would start with his nonsense. I hate that my little heart then felt so inferior by him.
multiple kids with different fathers that aren’t in the kids lives 💔
Has three kids, got married, lost a ton of weight, messaged me and genuinely apologized. Seems like having kids made her rethink her past actions so I forgave her.
I didn’t have a bully in HS. I had one in primary school, and we ended up attending the same HS . He tried to apologize to me, and I just couldn’t bring myself to talk to him. I have no idea where he is now. Do I care? Nope. But he did make me cry a lot. They used to tease me because I have a big bum. One of the guys actually told me it’s because he liked me. Crazy.
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Not sure, but I do have kind of a funny story about a bully I didn’t know I had lol. Had a BFF in like 6th grade. Drifted away in 7th and on.
In 9th or 10th grade, she messaged me on AIM and told me she was sorry she bullied me. She was a terrible bully because I literally had no idea 😂
Getting married to the same guy she dated in high school and hasn’t left town
Working at Hardee’s. I pulled up to the drive through window and there she was. Our town is small.
I saw mine on a news report about a bunny ranch in Nevada
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My sister was a bully in high school. She’s a teacher now and makes sure to tell all her students that her and her friends would bully other girls because they were insecure and had low self esteem.
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They’re dead; they were caught fooling around with the wrong person (ex-friend’s girl).
Her kid just started at the same school as mine. She said hi to me but looked super uncomfortable. So I’m not going to hold it over her head.
Nothing interesting. She’s an average soccer mom type with three kids. Seems happy.
I befriended her on FB to see what her life is like now. She caused a lot of grief in my life and that helped shape my personality, so you can say she had a huge impact on my life. But after seeing her normal day to day life, I lost interest rather quickly and deleted her. (By the time I found her, I was over the trauma, so I think that contributed to my lack of feelings about it.)
He’s a cop now 🙃
She was visibly pregnant at our high school graduation. Had her daughter later that summer.
As far as I know, the baby’s father left her, she’s still working a dead end job at the rec center in our hometown, and she might’ve gone to community college but I doubt it.
Meanwhile I’ve got my master’s degree, work my dream job and it’s paying VERY well, am happily married, and have a nice apartment in a nice area with my amazing husband.
I don’t care.
I didn’t have one. Everyone at my HS was pretty nice, from what I experienced. And I was a juicy target for a potential bully – fat, pimply, frizzy hair, braces, outdated glasses, very shy and socially awkward. Still, nothing. Not a single negative comment or unpleasant incident I can remember.
Sorry, not really an answer to your question. But I just never see this perspective reflected online so felt a need to share it. Kids being cruel assholes doesn’t have to be an inevitable fact of life.
One of them left a comment on my public Throwback Thursday album. She ended our friendship 25+ years ago with a protracted “silent treatment” campaign.
Since she loves the silent treatment so much, I was nice enough to not respond. No like, no block; just didn’t acknowledge her. Hope she had fun Googling me.
Have I let it go? Nope; I’m all set for the next 25 years!
I’m not friends with her on social media because fuck her but she’s a teacher at the school district we all attended which doesn’t surprise me because her mom works for the school district and her mom is just as awful too.
Saw that he was still alive and talking at the thirty year reunion.
First time he had looked me in the eyes since I hit him on the side of the head with an armload of hardback books, and left him on the floor of the gym.
He’s an alcoholic working a dead end job in his home town
That fucker still shows up in my dreams 40 years later. In every one of them, I kill him. One of the reasons I’m taking ketamine.
I think he works at McDonalds, in a different town now. And the other one still lives in the same town and works at a bar. Can’t help but chuckle that they haven’t done anything notable in their lives. Jerks.
No idea.
My high school bully was my sister and I haven’t seen, talked to, or heard from her since 1991 and I couldn’t care less.
Died fifteen years ago. Boating accident- it was sad, he left behind a daughter.
2 are dead. One by overdoes (he and I actually went to prom together but that’s a whole other story) and one by pneumonia. Another one is still living in our home town and I heard she recently made the big move from working at the local grocery store to the bank lol… I wish nothing but the worst for her
Edit: Fuck u Stephanie!
All of her friends cut her off by the time we graduated high school. Even her bff who used to gang up on me with her.
Just shows how awful of a human being she truly was
Doing well for themselves. I’m glad they changed. they also apologized to me.
I’m doing better, thank you!
She still believes I stole her bf in which I have never met in my life and to be honest I have never met any of her bf. I only know this because I’m related to her uuggghhh
Well one of my bullies got hit by a vehicle, it was a hit and run and it was in the local news. Honestly I don’t care about this person but at the same time I don’t feel empathy towards them.
Don’t know, don’t care.
Omg I recently checked and he’s still fine as fuck! This man use to tease me for having big lips in kindergarten. Is that considered a bully? It def felt that way when I was 5. I remember always dreading seeing him because I knew he would start with his nonsense. I hate that my little heart then felt so inferior by him.
multiple kids with different fathers that aren’t in the kids lives 💔
Has three kids, got married, lost a ton of weight, messaged me and genuinely apologized. Seems like having kids made her rethink her past actions so I forgave her.
I didn’t have a bully in HS. I had one in primary school, and we ended up attending the same HS . He tried to apologize to me, and I just couldn’t bring myself to talk to him. I have no idea where he is now. Do I care? Nope. But he did make me cry a lot. They used to tease me because I have a big bum. One of the guys actually told me it’s because he liked me. Crazy.
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Not sure, but I do have kind of a funny story about a bully I didn’t know I had lol. Had a BFF in like 6th grade. Drifted away in 7th and on.
In 9th or 10th grade, she messaged me on AIM and told me she was sorry she bullied me. She was a terrible bully because I literally had no idea 😂
Getting married to the same guy she dated in high school and hasn’t left town
Working at Hardee’s. I pulled up to the drive through window and there she was. Our town is small.
I saw mine on a news report about a bunny ranch in Nevada
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My sister was a bully in high school. She’s a teacher now and makes sure to tell all her students that her and her friends would bully other girls because they were insecure and had low self esteem.
I don’t know, and frankly, I don’t care.