Im a dude, and personally, how a woman looked physically really never played a factor in whether I would date her or not. Sure I could tell whether someone was conventionally attractive or conventionally unattractive, but I simply never felt that was very important, and I would rather look for things like shared interests
But whenever I go on this and other related subs about dating and relationships, everyone talks about how “looks are what puts your foot in the door” and “without physical attraction, a relationship can’t form”, and other people saying they can’t find themselves dating someone they aren’t initially physically attracted to.
Is not caring about physical looks really that rare? Am I seriously weird for this?