If you take someone from their relationship to be with you, you don’t just get them you get proof they can cheat. That’s where the catch-22 starts.You can tell yourself it’s different now, that you’re the one they really wanted. But in the back of your mind, the doubt stays. Every slow text, every vague plan, every strange change in their mood you’ll remember how easily they lied before. That thought only gets heavier over time.And now he’s with someone who knows he’s done it before. That means more suspicion, less trust, and more fights. That pressure alone can push the relationship toward the same ending you thought you’d avoid.Even if he never cheats again, you started on broken trust, not trust you earned. It’s like building a house on weak ground it might stand for a while, but cracks will show.When you “win” someone this way, you don’t just take them. You take the problem that came with them. And that problem never really leaves. I mean you guys can do whatever you want your life. Kudos !