My bf (44m) lives with me (44f), together just under 2 years. He has class 4 days a week, 2 of them from home. He does not work. I work from home full time. I have 5 to 6 months a year of 50 to 55 hour weeks. The house and car are both mine.
He cooks, goes grocery shopping once a week, and mows the very small yard once every week or 2. We each do our own laundry. I order groceries sporadically. I feed and clean up after our 3 cats (1 his, 1 mine, 1 ours), wash and put up the dishes, and do general cleaning of the house once a week and as needed. Minus the room he uses for college and its attached bathroom. The whole house is just under 1400 sf.
I feel like as a childless couple living solely on my income, I should not have to take on as much housework as is falling to me. Still debating how I want to bring it up too. Thoughts Reddit?
TL;DR Unhappy with division of housework, looking for thoughts and ways to bring up the subject nicely.