I’ve been encountering a bit of a challenge lately: whenever she asks me to do something, like play a game, watch a show, or help with chores- if I say no, she often responds with surprise and keeps pushing for a yes. Just last night, she wanted to play a video game together. I mentioned that I wasn't really up for it at that moment, but suggested maybe tomorrow instead. She continued to press me, and I eventually lost my cool a bit and told her that I need her to understand that "no" is a valid answer. Unfortunately, she reacted by saying I was being cruel.
I've tried to explain that I want to set healthy boundaries and that her persistence can be a bit overwhelming, but she seems to brush it off. So, Reddit: do you think I was too harsh, or is it fair to want my boundaries respected?