This is an update to my last post where I asked if I should send a text for closure.
Well I did get closure, finally felt like I was over him.
Then I blocked him.
Then he got his friend to tell my best friend (xyz of excuses).
I unblocked and messaged him I’m not interested in him anymore but if he needs to talk about (the ACTUAL excuses) then he can. <for context, it was a lot of personal stuff going bad in his life and he doesn’t talk to his friends so I was his emotional dumping ground and I lowkey enjoy that so >
Now he’s hunting for his validation again
If you want them to want you, break it off. Communicate it all out for yourself to finally detach. Then block.
I do not think my ghost will stay tbh but I’m actually icked out so it’s ok lol.
Thought I’d just share my experience though.
Ghosters seem to love their fix of validation and coming back whenever they need a hit again. I’ve not given him the fix . It’s just interesting to watch