I’ve been talking to this girl for almost two months, and honestly, it’s been great. She shows interest, matches my energy, and we see each other in person. We go on dates, and when we’re together everything feels right. It feels like we’re on the same page. She shows interest and i genuinely do enjoy her company.
she told me she’d be busy the next couple of months because she’s studying for work. I’m also studying for a new job since I just graduated college, so I know we both get busy at times. About a week ago, we had a conversation and agreed to focus only on each other. We both said we’re not talking to anyone else and wanted to see where this goes.
Right after that conversation, the texting just dropped off. It went from us talking at a good amount then texts went to once a day to barely anything, and now it’s been five days with no response at all. She’s left some of my other messages on IG open and hasn’t said anything. So now she leaves me on read and hasn’t responded to any of my text messages.
I understand being busy, and I know texting doesn’t always reflect how someone feels. But I still feel like it doesn’t take much to send a simple check-in, especially when you say you’re all in on someone. I even brought it up before. I told her I understand how overwhelming texting can get sometimes. I’ve been there. But I said I’d be cool with just a quick daily check in to stay connected, and she agreed. So now it feels weird because I don’t know what changed.
When we’re in person, everything seems fine. That’s what throws me off. We just had a conversation about only seeing each other, and now it’s radio silence. I can totally move on if this isn’t what she wants anymore. Dating isn’t really a problem for me. I just don’t want to go down that road if we already agreed we were building something here.