I (27F) was seeing this guy (28M) from around September to the end of January this year and it didn’t exactly end amicably. Then out of nowhere he phoned me last month and we were friendly and caught up, and he phoned weekly over the following weeks until last Wednesday he suggested we have a date at mine at the weekend there, and was really excited about it. It was supposed to be Friday night, but then he said he had to work; I couldn’t make Saturday night; then he said he could come over for 8 on Sunday. The last message I sent him was at 4pm Sunday asking if he wanted to have dinner or if he’d have eaten already.
Then I sat from 8 until roughly 9:30pm waiting like an idiot before realising he’d blocked me. We communicated through Facebook, I don’t have his number, and he never uses Instagram. He only lives a minute down the road for me so it would be no hassle dropping a letter in.
I wouldn’t have even minded if he’d gave some excuse or let me know he changed his mind, it’s the fact that he essentially ghosted me, stood me up, and blocked me literally out of nowhere, no explanation, no closure or anything. I just want closure and for him to know how much he hurt me by doing that and that it’s not fair or acceptable to treat someone up like that. I have MH issues too, which he knows about, and he will have known it’d hurt me and potentially set my progress back.