i (m20) get told i’m attractive but nobody ever comes to me, nobody flirts with me, i get fuck all matches on dating apps (when im on them), and when i do i get ghosted. nobody has shown genuine interest in dating me in like 3 years, apart from when i got stood up a couple months back.
do i just give up? am i unlovable? is there even a point in trying anymore? is there something wrong with me? just makes me feel like a fucking loser
to me, logically it makes no sense to say that there is nothing wrong with me if i have gone this long without anyone being genuinely interested in me.
i can fake confidence fine (as everyone on the planet says to do) but it just hurts man, it makes me feel unlovable, undesirable, it makes me feels ugly, it makes me feel like there’s something fundamentally wrong with me but there is zero resources as to how to fix these types of emotions. everyone just says “work on yourself” or “go to the gym” as if i haven’t tried that/don’t do that.
im just tired of feeling inadequate.