I have encountered this many times, curious if it’s normal or is it some vibe I am giving?
I connect on the app, have some good chats. Then I suggest a meet and greet. Which would be coffee or a drink. Somehow, women always want to meet at lunchtime or dinner time. One woman even said she would would only meet for dinner!
Ok, cost is a factor but the biggest issue I have is that I don’t want to be stuck with someone for more than an hour when we realize there’s no chemistry in the first moments.
If we meet for a drink, it’s easy enough to make it a dinner.
How best to communicate this without sounding cheap?
Thanks for the advice.