My (44F) husband (47M) has asked for an open marriage. We have been married for 23 years and have 3 children. He says it’s not a necessity and only wants to do it if I can enthusiastically consent. He has cheated on me 1 time before 8 years ago. He wants to solicit naked pictures from other women he knows personally.he says it’s okay if I don’t want to, but he wants to add a little bit of spice to our relationship.
We have talked about it and I have said I am not interested, but he brings it up every weekend and gets frustrated when I say I don’t want to do it. It is causing a lot of anxiety for me and bringing up PTSD from when he did cheat. Is it time for me to move on?