I am nearly 30 and female and never had a long term relationship or even a fling. It is starting to really upset me. Today I got another reminder how single I was when a couple asked me to take a picture of them.
I don’t think I am unattractive, I dress well, super creative and I have hobbies like rollerblading. I am outgoing even though I have autism and adhd. I am really struggling at finding someone who I can connect with. I am finding I am getting ghosted or we don’t connect/values don’t align. Dated quite a few people and I give people second and third dates to see if it grows. Still on the dating apps. Today I was thinking I want to find a way to be happy single. I often want to stop the desire for a relationship because I don’t want this to upset me anymore.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? How did you deal with the feeling of being left behind? And for those who found a way to be happy being single, what's your secret? Any advice or shared experiences would be really appreciated. I could use some magical hope right now x x x