My ex husband. Started trying again, but dating had changed so much, not a fan.
Never started ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
Men!
Lack of good options to choose from.
Getting cheated on.
I’m so traumatised I can’t even self pleasure myself without feeling horrible afterwards and my trust issues are at an all time low. I almost vomited when I remembered certain things we did in the bedroom.
I’m in absolutely no shape way or form capable of being with another human being until I sort this crap out, or else I’m gonna end up completely neurotic, controlling, and having PTSD meltdowns during sex.
men with lack of everything. i dont wanna be a parent for a partner.
i tried dating again and now this person is not over their ex but ready to date. make it make sense
I cannot handle being used and emotionally abused all over. Feels like even the “good” men are way too ignorant, sexist and lazy. I don’t seem to gain anything from relationships, and I get taken for granted because I am a giver, but men without empathy who just take, suck the life out of me. And they always end up taking.
People pretend their emotionally available but they’re not.
Either they’re not over their ex, not open to therapy, not healed from the past traumas etc
Not being able to find someone who wants me!
Online dating. A constant string of dates with men who didn’t seem to want committment.
The cycle of repeating conversations (with new people), opening up then rejection was painful and dehumanising.
I have been out of the dating scene 10 years (marriage and divorce) and I don’t know if it’s because my expectations are higher now but I find every conversation online dull, like men have zero personality, hobbies, interests…
Many expect getting a mum and not a partner. Most urgently need therapy. When you are perfectly happy on your own, that special person has to bring something extra to your life, and none of the people I meet irl or online have that.
Because so far it’s proven to be easier and happier single than while dating a man
Men
people will literally pretend to like you
I never actively “dated” as in sense of being on dating apps or going out with intention to look for someone. I was still social and happily met new people via friends or at hobbies, but combination of being bit shy and having high standards meant I did not have active dating period in my life. Then I met my husband via friends when I was 22. Now I just need to make sure he lives long, happy and healthy life so that I’ll never have to worry about dating.
The realisation that I had to work on myself first in order to attract the partner and relationship I wanted.
A man.
He made the very idea of dating unthinkable and honestly absolutely disgusting. It’s so bad it feels like I’ll never want to date again.
We love each other though, so it’s alright.
Men.
Men.
If I was a woman I’d never date men.
Men who claims they aren’t ready for relationships after making relationship references, speaking about intentions, flirting, and saying we might’ve found the one but just don’t know yet.🙂
Incompetent men. Could ask them for NOTHING and they still wouldn’t be able to deliver.
Emotionally unavailable people. Despite the fact that I know they “like” me and are interested in me, they still are lacking either emotional intelligence or don’t know if they really want to settle down.
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I got ugly
I got married
My ex husband. Started trying again, but dating had changed so much, not a fan.
Never started ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
Men!
Lack of good options to choose from.
Getting cheated on.
I’m so traumatised I can’t even self pleasure myself without feeling horrible afterwards and my trust issues are at an all time low. I almost vomited when I remembered certain things we did in the bedroom.
I’m in absolutely no shape way or form capable of being with another human being until I sort this crap out, or else I’m gonna end up completely neurotic, controlling, and having PTSD meltdowns during sex.
men with lack of everything. i dont wanna be a parent for a partner.
i tried dating again and now this person is not over their ex but ready to date. make it make sense
I cannot handle being used and emotionally abused all over. Feels like even the “good” men are way too ignorant, sexist and lazy. I don’t seem to gain anything from relationships, and I get taken for granted because I am a giver, but men without empathy who just take, suck the life out of me. And they always end up taking.
People pretend their emotionally available but they’re not.
Either they’re not over their ex, not open to therapy, not healed from the past traumas etc
Not being able to find someone who wants me!
Online dating. A constant string of dates with men who didn’t seem to want committment.
The cycle of repeating conversations (with new people), opening up then rejection was painful and dehumanising.
I have been out of the dating scene 10 years (marriage and divorce) and I don’t know if it’s because my expectations are higher now but I find every conversation online dull, like men have zero personality, hobbies, interests…
Many expect getting a mum and not a partner. Most urgently need therapy. When you are perfectly happy on your own, that special person has to bring something extra to your life, and none of the people I meet irl or online have that.
Because so far it’s proven to be easier and happier single than while dating a man
Men
people will literally pretend to like you
I never actively “dated” as in sense of being on dating apps or going out with intention to look for someone. I was still social and happily met new people via friends or at hobbies, but combination of being bit shy and having high standards meant I did not have active dating period in my life. Then I met my husband via friends when I was 22. Now I just need to make sure he lives long, happy and healthy life so that I’ll never have to worry about dating.
The realisation that I had to work on myself first in order to attract the partner and relationship I wanted.
A man.
He made the very idea of dating unthinkable and honestly absolutely disgusting. It’s so bad it feels like I’ll never want to date again.
We love each other though, so it’s alright.
Men.
Men.
If I was a woman I’d never date men.
Men who claims they aren’t ready for relationships after making relationship references, speaking about intentions, flirting, and saying we might’ve found the one but just don’t know yet.🙂
Incompetent men. Could ask them for NOTHING and they still wouldn’t be able to deliver.
Emotionally unavailable people. Despite the fact that I know they “like” me and are interested in me, they still are lacking either emotional intelligence or don’t know if they really want to settle down.
Jesus Christ on a pogo stick, make up your minds.