So first off, I don’t have any disabilities and I don’t have any deformities.

I’m a regular able-bodied human so I can check that off my list.

Next, I properly groom and don’t wear outlandish clothes. I shave, I trim nose hairs, have regular haircuts, shower every day, put on cologne, wear deodorant, etc.

So there’s nothing out of the ordinary with my presentation.

Now, the final thing is, I’m not bad looking but I sure as hell aren’t super attractive. I see guys online saying that women only look at and make eye contact with men they find attractive, but there’s no way this would be almost 90% of the women I see, right?

I guess the only other thing is that I may come off as a threat? But I never stare at people, I often have women telling me I look like a softboi, and I make sure to always be mindful of my presence and the space I’m taking up.

The only reason I even notice women looking at me is I’ll just randomly be walking and as I turn my head, they’ll be staring directly at me. Some of them smile at me, but I’ve had women stare at me like I’m a creature from another planet. I remember one time I was at the airport walking to the bathroom and from like 10 yards out I saw a girl looking at me, I thought nothing of it but as I was walking closer I could see her still looking at me. I walked PAST her and she literally turned to stare at me as I went into the bathroom. I came out and same freaking thing, just straight up staring at me.

Am I possibly just a freak of nature and just don’t realize it?


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  4. It’s possible that you look really similar to a celebrity? What if people are staring to try to figure out if you’re some famous person. I had an instance recently where I swore for the life of me that this one guy on a hike was miles teller. I kept staring at him nonstop trying to figure it out and eventually I came to terms that it wasn’t. But I probably really creeped the poor dude out in the process.

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