I (f40) have been cheated on 3 times by 3 different people. First time was my bf of a few months in high-school. Unsure why. 2nd was my kids dad, we fought a lot. I understand why. Very toxic relationship from both ends. Both of these times I was cheated on by with best friends at the time as well. Third time was a 7 yr relationship with M5yrs older. It started very well but he was cheating since the start. I am obviously going to start therapy soon for everything I have been through. People always say its not your fault for them cheating but I am the common denominator. I have a good job, no record, no addictions, no severe mental disorders, dont blatantly try to hurt others…. so honestly wth. Is this a normal thing with people? Hardly anyone i know has been cheated on (that they know).
Has anyone else been through numerous cheaters and found its partly them? Just trying to make some sense of it all.
TL;DR been cheated on 3+ times by 3 different partners. Im common denominator. Anyone else been through multiple cheaters and found they are partly at fault?
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