So my ex used to compare me with her exes and this started in the first month of us dating, she loved being pampered and cared for like this was her thing “i am a pampered person” and i love pampering and baby a girl myself but maybe our definitions of pampering was a little different hence she thought i didn’t care enough, yes if someone has experienced a good relationship with care/consideration then you want that kinda relationship again, sure!! but comparisons need to have a tact to it..
Honestly there were instances where she really read too much into a thing and jumped to wrong conclusions or nitpicked stuff like which could have been solved with some healthy discussion but i cared so much i reassured every thing repeatedly and considered her every concern or request but she got rude and started comparing me one on one or if i raised any concern she said that if her past exes didn’t raise that concern then it’s invalid so i must be wrong
So how normal is this am i wrong for being hurt?