The text I’ve drafted;
Hey, I’m sorry if I sent anything bad when I was really drunk on Saturday- when I woke up I’d deleted the chat, and I couldn’t see it so I must’ve been embarrassed 😂😅
I’m just messaging to let you know I think I wanna stop doing whatever this is. You’re the first boy I’ve spoken to in 7 years, it was fun at first, and I’m really grateful I got to experience that with someone as sweet as you! But I’m the type of person that feels deeply and has a lot of love for people, so I’m not sure this is something that’s right for me.
I just needed to message this for closure tbh, I hope there’s no bad blood between us ☺️ <[(not sure about this bit; it’s more out of spite to send him a really cute selfie to make me know what he fumbled)]> don’t forget my face tho? I’ll probably say hi if I see you around x
The context;
Texting this guy since May, he has asked me on a GOOD FEW dates but I’ve been so busy I’ve said no to all of them. We’ve had the opportunity to meet up a good few times but every single time he either ghosts or will message right before or after saying he can’t make it or that he’s sorry he couldn’t make it.
He ghosted on and off for aggeeees
Honestly I just don’t understand if he’s been love bombing me and then ghosting or if he’s just a really nice guy going through a lot (he’s had a bit of a rough time lately) but I am not going to let him use that as an excuse to be rude to me
My goal is if I send this, I will have closure for myself and show him how easy it is to just walk away instead of leaving the door open for himself when he leaves. I hate constantly wondering if he’s going to text me today so I blocked him for a few days to get my feelings levelled and calm, get rid of any anger I was feeling and find peace again.
This “situationship” wasn’t that deep but we were there for eachother emotionally and every single time we would get to a breakthrough point he would ghost. Really annoying.
Is it appropriate to send this text? Will it provide closure for him too? Or will it just annoy him?