Generally I’d rather assume the former than to disappoint myself by misinterpreting “signals” that might not even exist, but my mind still wanders.
There’s this girl at my job that works in a different department. She’s generally friendly but we haven’t really chopped it up like that besides basic greetings, at least not initially. Ever since I happen to run into her at another coworker’s party though she’s been super friendly with me lately.
Now she’s going out of her way to chop it up with me, asks me what time I’m off every time she sees me, hella smiley and energetic etc. Now I’m aware this could all just be basic ass cordial coworker shit, and it is possible she just feels more comfortable around me now that she’s seen me outside of work, but the thing is we barely talked at that party for more than a few seconds because we happen to recognize each other, can’t imagine some bond formed from that.
Idk if this detail means anything but I also got a haircut recently which was met with a LOT of positive reception, and said party happen to be the first time most of my coworkers seen me without my work hat. Not sure if this detail means anything but just felt like throwing it out there.
Can’t tell if I’m overthinking all this, if I’m just turning a super basic and normal interaction into something that it’s not, or if there maybe is some potential. Never been the best reader at this shit.
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Hard truth may not be truth tho … that these type of girls would be calm beside someone they had feelings too ….
My ex was the same …
But as i said its not an 100% truth maybe u righ she feels some kind of acceptance toward u ….
But u cant have the full answer until u actually try to engage with this person thats it and keep up with him and he already made the keys open so dealing with him wont be this hard … try to keep up with him until you being in point where u should confess to him to avoid friendzoning ….
Good luck