Women of Reddit, if you could go for coffee with your younger self, what would you tell her?
July 28, 2025
Women of Reddit, if you could go for coffee with your younger self, what would you tell her?
11 comments
Tell mom you love her. She doesn’t have long.
Stay in college and go into Air Force as an officer, than Army enlisted.
Buy Nvidia
Learn personal fiscal responsibility and start investing now.
Start failing.
I know it’s scary but the only way to avoid it is to go nowhere and do nothing for the rest of our life and that’s not what we want.
Get your drivers license and stop procrastinating
You don’t have to carry all your pain alone.
You deserve support, care, and guidance to help heal the wounds you’ve been carrying since childhood.
Go to therapy. You’re not broken- you’re hurting, and you deserve help.
If you don’t tend to those wounds, they’ll keep silently steering you toward the same kinds of pain that created them in the first place because the chaos feels familiar to your weary body.
You deserve more than survival. You deserve peace.
Stop worrying about what other people think of you. Be yourself, people will love you for it!
This pain is long lasting, but still temporary.
Invest in bit coin, be more confident, PCOS sucks, and go for engineering in your 30’s.
Live your life as if finding a partner isn’t part of your main quest. It can be a great bonus in life but don’t waste your time searching for “the one”, you are all you need.
11 comments
Tell mom you love her. She doesn’t have long.
Stay in college and go into Air Force as an officer, than Army enlisted.
Buy Nvidia
Learn personal fiscal responsibility and start investing now.
Start failing.
I know it’s scary but the only way to avoid it is to go nowhere and do nothing for the rest of our life and that’s not what we want.
Get your drivers license and stop procrastinating
You don’t have to carry all your pain alone.
You deserve support, care, and guidance to help heal the wounds you’ve been carrying since childhood.
Go to therapy. You’re not broken- you’re hurting, and you deserve help.
If you don’t tend to those wounds, they’ll keep silently steering you toward the same kinds of pain that created them in the first place because the chaos feels familiar to your weary body.
You deserve more than survival. You deserve peace.
Stop worrying about what other people think of you. Be yourself, people will love you for it!
This pain is long lasting, but still temporary.
Invest in bit coin, be more confident, PCOS sucks, and go for engineering in your 30’s.
Live your life as if finding a partner isn’t part of your main quest. It can be a great bonus in life but don’t waste your time searching for “the one”, you are all you need.