We have a group of friends, a mix of immigrants and a local couple living in the same city. Half of the group are my actual friends and the other half are their friends. I get along well with most of them, but one girl in particular is quite crude, and we don't get along very well, I don't like her and I don't think she likes me. She makes jokes sometimes on my account which are quite vulgar. I don't think I couldn't respond to her on the same level/make similar jokes without sounding crazy sexist. I mostly try to ignore her, but sometimes she manages to get on my nerves.
We all invite ourselves to our birthday, and this year I'm planning mine as a trip, which the group is excited about. I don't think I want that person there though. Is there a way to not invite her without making it super weird for everyone? She invited me to her bdays, and participated in mine before.
I know it might sound like some high school shit, but I'm single in another country and have an otherwise great group of friends. Just not sure how should I deal with that one person in particular.