I 26m just found out I’ve been used the whole time by my 26f gf now ex gf as a few minutes ago.
We were dating for a year she came here 2 years ago on a student visa and she just admitted she wanted to get married asap so she can get her green card and won’t have to pay as much for school and other things. After that I blocked her I should have known the red flags as she was always talked about this.

She was my first gf and I feel like no woman would want me for who I am because I’m ugly probably.


11 comments

  2. Better you found out now than later.

    And don’t put yourself down. You will find someone 🙂

  3. I’m sorry that happened to you, that’s really shitty. Do yourself a favor and try not to put yourself down, you still have a lot of time to find love. However breaking up with her was probably the right choice based on the limited information shared.

  5. That’s brutal, I’m so sorry. Try not to beat yourself up too soon though and at least give putting yourself out there a chance before worrying nobody will want you! What she did was not fair but it doesn’t diminish your worth at all.

  6. Dude!! Quit your crying and go to the gym buff up and get shredded and show her what she missed out on brother! There is plenty of girls in the sea. Besides you more than likely dodged a bullet. Sorry if I sounded rude

  7. Maybe I’m missing something here but why exactly would this be a problem if you loved her? Wouldn’t you want to make her life easier while also committing to her and guaranteeing she can stay in the country with you?

  9. I’m sorry. There are some really shitty women out there and it being your first girlfriend makes it rough. I agree with some of the guys in here, go to the gym. It will help in more ways than one. It’ll help your stress, help your confidence, help with your appearance, and get you out/around people to make potential connections.

    It’s a good thing you had the self respect to block her. That was some BS.

  10. First off, you need to work on your self esteem. Personality, nice grooming, good conversationalist and don’t gaslight/ghost! A real man is never ugly!

  11. But did you love her and possibly want to marry her one day? Seems like a year long relationship is enough time to make that decision whether you want to one day or not. Maybe you should take it as a compliment that she chose you as her partner?

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