I (21M) don't know if something's wrong with me, or if I'm just getting unlucky, because I'm at such a dead end here. I'm looking for support, advice, or whatever input anyone can give me because I'm lost.
To preface, I wouldn't say I'm unattractive; numerous people (friends, exes, strangers) have complimented my appearance, found me attractive, etc. I used to think I was at least above average, but with how a lot of people act, I waver between feeling confident in my looks, and then feeling like an egotistical idiot who overestimates myself–I digress. In my past, I've had 2 relationships, one drunken kiss, and one date.
Currently, I have not had much success in dating despite putting myself out there. I've gotten numbers, snaps, etc from people I've met in multiple places who seem interested. But for example, I've been talking to this one girl on snap, who was expressing full interest, we planned a date, she seemed excited, and then I asked for her number and I got ghosted. Another woman, we were texting, we planned a date, she had the flu, so we rescheduled, and she ghosted me a couple days later. This has happened twice more, and that's not even to mention the countless people who have ghosted me before we even got a chance to plan anything. I just want to give up, I wish I could be stable with somebody.
Any help would be appreciated