I like a guy he’s my senior we rarely talked. At first I wasn’t interested in him but with time i started liking him. Our mutuals told me that he’s interested cause we’ve been talking for 2 months now and he usually doesn’t talk to girls. He replies within a day and sometimes after few days. He told me hes been burnt out lately so hes not much in talking but randomly we had a talk on the call for 6 hours and then chatted till morning 10am.
(Idk i had a long crush on this guy but one incident made me hate him cause once i asked him if I could take a picture of him for some project, we hit it off nicely and the next day i tried greeting him and he ignored me, so i hated him) when i entered university and now i finally get to talk to him and mostly him replying to my stories. I feel uneasy, unsure about his feelings obviously i cant ask since i feel like he called me talked about his friends and shared his stories that he considers me as a good friend but he’s invested too much. Because he started approaching me, talking to me every time he saw me in university altho i was clearly uninterested).
lol. Moving forward to next few days, I dropped him a message to contact me asap cause i wanted some info, He called. It turned into a 2 hour call. I was bout to drop the call but he kept the convo going. Sounded more comfortable, shared his first love story and talked about his family. He then asked me if i wanna go watch a movie with him.
We went to watch the movie but sadly the cinema was full and no seats were available so we decided to go and grab coffee cause he was craving for it. He offered me a bike ride but i wasn’t comfortable so we booked an uber and grabbed coffees. He asked me if he could smoke and i was ok with it, we drank coffee, (i even tried his with his own straw which i don’t usually do and i told him that). I even told him that i usually dont wear lipgloss but I wore it today and he said he knows???? Why does he know that. later we walked and just talked about families our lore random here and there talks.
More to that when i got home, he called me and asked if i got home and he asked to bare him until he gets himself some ice cream. He kept yapping about the place he usually hangs out with his friends. He said that he kept his phone inside his helmet and he’s talking to me. Even while meeting his friends he was on the call so i was like we can talk later u meet ur friends and we ended our 15 minutes call, to him saying thank you for meeting me i had fun and making my day better, lets do this again.
He even told me that he replies late cause when hes out he doesnt use his phone which is true because the time he spent with me he didnt open up his phone. Its been a week he hasnt replied to be or is active on socials, he’s barely active. Literally once a week, posts smth and leaves. Not even on his spam account!!
TLDR: My senior approached me, showed interest, got me hooked on him and now he’s not that active on his socials nor we talk ( I lowkey feel he’s ignoring me)