Then found out this afternoon that she either went back to her ex last night, or was already back with him, when she was planning to do things with me… I feel dead inside now. lol She never brought up the fact that they were together once, in all the time we chatted. Her ex isn't a bad guy, and I've known him a long time and consider him a friend (but not close). I found out about this, through other friends (yes multiple) of mine, who saw them, and let me know… lol Her 'ex' is likely in the dark about me. Anyway I just really feel blindsided. Edit: I blocked her number, after sending her a closure message. If someone wants to talk about it with me, I'd appreciate it. I don't have anyone to talk to.