My bf (M22) and I (F22) have been dating for around 4 months now, and I've never felt insecure in the relationship bc he'd always been reassuring to me. He doesn't care whether I go on his phone or pc at all, lets me stay in his room while he's away etc, just overall transparent, which made me feel safe. But today I was on his vsco account and somehow ended up under 'favourites' and saw that he 'favourited' photos of different girls 2-3 times from the time we became official to now. I saw that he also had photos of other girls favourited before we started dating. I honestly consider this as micro cheating and lustful. It hurts me to know he's like this. Do I talk to him about it? But at the same time I'm not ready to leave because I love him. If I do tell him about it, and tells him how this is disrespectul but I still stay, will he make me tolerate more, rather than change? Please, I need help. Thank you.

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**TL;DR;** : Found bf favouriting photos of girls on vsco. What do I do? I'm conflicted.


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