Been together a year.
My gf picked me up from what I was doing and got into a minor disagreement with another driver whilst doing so…
Then a little on down the road she was speeding and very almost caused an accident with a bike and during this I yelled out because I was genuinely quite scared.
After that it just seemed to escalate. She made a disparaging comment about me being a passenger princess and if I commented on her driving again she would leave me whilst continuing to do about 20 over the speed limit and almost went into the back of another car.
I'm honestly lost for words rn. I was frightened in that moment and nothing I could say was making her drive slower. We're not speaking right now she hasn't even apologised but it's got me completely blindsided. Is this abuse? Do I need to follow up on this with her? I'm worried it will cause an even bigger argument