This guy seemed like such a green flag. He seemed very sweet, respectful, easygoing, thoughtful. He traveled 3 hours to see me last weekend for a first date and really wanted to see me again this weekend. Sunday and Monday, same excitement. Tuesday, he reached out but he was flatter in tone as we didn’t talk till 6 pm. I didn’t reach out first that day because truthfully I was very anxious and wanted to stay off my phone. I told him this when he reached out.
Yesterday, I reached out first, but he was still very flat in tone. Today, crickets.
Did I do something wrong by not reaching out first on Tuesday? Or was this on him?