What do you do forgive and forget? Or just forgive but never forget?
July 1, 2025
What do you do forgive and forget? Or just forgive but never forget?
5 comments
It depends on what happened and by whom.
I don’t forget, and I don’t think I genuinely forgive either. I think it takes a lot of time for me to get past something enough to not think about it consistently. So I guess I just give it time
I forgive but never forget. A work in progress.
It depends but with what I’m currently dealing with, it’s hard to forget and it’s been a battle trying to forgive. I won’t ever forget what they did to me but I will try my best, every time it comes to mind, to forgive them over and over again for my sake. I’ve been dealing with this for two years so far and and I’ll never forget but I will learn to forgive, in time, for my sake and my sake only. Not for them. And frankly they could not care less about me so they don’t gaf if I forgive or not.
I can’t control what happened to me even though I did not deserve it. But I will control how I go about my life knowing who they really are. I will heal, for me bc I deserve peace. I will forgive them for me, bc they do not deserve to take up this much space in my mind.
5 comments
It depends on what happened and by whom.
I don’t forget, and I don’t think I genuinely forgive either. I think it takes a lot of time for me to get past something enough to not think about it consistently. So I guess I just give it time
I forgive but never forget. A work in progress.
It depends but with what I’m currently dealing with, it’s hard to forget and it’s been a battle trying to forgive. I won’t ever forget what they did to me but I will try my best, every time it comes to mind, to forgive them over and over again for my sake. I’ve been dealing with this for two years so far and and I’ll never forget but I will learn to forgive, in time, for my sake and my sake only. Not for them. And frankly they could not care less about me so they don’t gaf if I forgive or not.
I can’t control what happened to me even though I did not deserve it. But I will control how I go about my life knowing who they really are. I will heal, for me bc I deserve peace. I will forgive them for me, bc they do not deserve to take up this much space in my mind.
So, forgive and never forget
I forget. Memory of goldfish.