What’s a thing you wish your lover would do more often in the bedroom?
June 22, 2025
What’s a thing you wish your lover would do more often in the bedroom?
23 comments
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Initiate 🥺 our sex life is phenomenal but I have had to initiate it a lot more recently and it’s making me feel a little unwanted.
More foreplay that is not directly sexual. Kisses on the lips, on the neck, nice words, cuddling with fingers that delicately slide down my neck, back… basically, that everything progresses more slowly to the sexual part. Ngl he is excellent anyway, and I also have a variable character between tender vs wild that even I can’t foresee.
Not much! He’s amazing. Only thing I could say is that I’d like him to talk to me a bit more. Doesn’t have to be dirty talk (although I do like it), he just has such a nice voice. It also helps to keep me present as that’s something I struggle with sometimes. I’ve told him this and he does sometimes but he says he doesn’t know what to say lol
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not snore or kick
cuddles
Foreplay, finger me, and go down on me. He’s kinda a pillow princess lol!!
Initiation. Foreplay. Oral. Talking me through it. Aftercare that doesn’t just equal him falling asleep on top of me then calling it a day.
Look for me more times.
Initiate
Cuddling, kissing, talking after !!!!!!!!!!
in my relationship im the one tryna keep up to speed,
ever been with the type that goes on chrome tryna find out new uncharted styles?
Sleep
make me finish
Not much really he is fantastic, I just we both could somehow match our desire for it lol, he somehow loves finishing a long day with some love making while I rather just sleep and there are times in which I want to get busy with him during day time he preffers it at night lol
More kissing (everywhere) and make more noises.
Turn the fucking lamp off before passing out and making the bed in the morning
Butthole stuff
Me
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Me…HLM…she…LLF
She won’t let me touch her. Hugs, kissing, etc…She’s made herself off limits for the past 30 years.
I want to throw this out to her…..OK, for 30 years, we’ve tried your way…you said baby steps….Here we are 30 years of no change….How about we try my way and see if things change, or if it’s just over and it’s time to move on. She’s disengaged, no interest in any intimacy, romance.
23 comments
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[removed]
Initiate 🥺 our sex life is phenomenal but I have had to initiate it a lot more recently and it’s making me feel a little unwanted.
More foreplay that is not directly sexual. Kisses on the lips, on the neck, nice words, cuddling with fingers that delicately slide down my neck, back… basically, that everything progresses more slowly to the sexual part. Ngl he is excellent anyway, and I also have a variable character between tender vs wild that even I can’t foresee.
Not much! He’s amazing. Only thing I could say is that I’d like him to talk to me a bit more. Doesn’t have to be dirty talk (although I do like it), he just has such a nice voice. It also helps to keep me present as that’s something I struggle with sometimes. I’ve told him this and he does sometimes but he says he doesn’t know what to say lol
[deleted]
not snore or kick
cuddles
Foreplay, finger me, and go down on me. He’s kinda a pillow princess lol!!
Initiation. Foreplay. Oral. Talking me through it. Aftercare that doesn’t just equal him falling asleep on top of me then calling it a day.
Look for me more times.
Initiate
Cuddling, kissing, talking after !!!!!!!!!!
in my relationship im the one tryna keep up to speed,
ever been with the type that goes on chrome tryna find out new uncharted styles?
Sleep
make me finish
Not much really he is fantastic, I just we both could somehow match our desire for it lol, he somehow loves finishing a long day with some love making while I rather just sleep and there are times in which I want to get busy with him during day time he preffers it at night lol
More kissing (everywhere) and make more noises.
Turn the fucking lamp off before passing out and making the bed in the morning
Butthole stuff
Me
[removed]
Me…HLM…she…LLF
She won’t let me touch her. Hugs, kissing, etc…She’s made herself off limits for the past 30 years.
I want to throw this out to her…..OK, for 30 years, we’ve tried your way…you said baby steps….Here we are 30 years of no change….How about we try my way and see if things change, or if it’s just over and it’s time to move on. She’s disengaged, no interest in any intimacy, romance.