Pretty much what the title says, do you guys make Eye contact during sex? I dont mean a quick glance I'm meaning the intense kind of Eye contact.
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I don’t think I ever make “intense” eye contact, but my husband and I do make eye contact on and off when we’re performing oral. We think it’s hot in the moment.
If theres no trust nor emotional vulnerability i avoid eye contact.
I’m way too shy for that and I’ve been having sex with the same person for almost 6 years.
A little eye contact here and there feels really intimate and sweet — but too much and I start overthinking like, “Am I doing this right?”
I do. I don’t stare or glare at him (lol), that’d probably creep him out. But I feel I contact is part of the shared experience.
I LOVE looking into my partners eyes when we really get into it and we’re talking filth to each other 😅 it’s really intense and makes me cum harder.
My husband and I make eye contact during, he likes to see my face. Not like consistently or anything, but he’s usually making eye contact when he finishes.
Hell no don’t look at me LOL
Nah I’m staring into their soul if they’re inside me and they gotta stare back.
I def do with my husband I love it
I do and I really enjoy it, you just go to the next level of experience
This one time, we were pretty high, and just staring into each others’ eyes while going AT it. It was so intimate and intense, I feel like I saw every feeling and thought he had through his eyes. When those feelings hit, we really slowed it down, and he started to tear up a bit, and I did too, and we couldn’t bring ourselves to break the contact until it was over. That’s the only time I’ve had eye contact, at least as prolonged and intense, as that.
Hell ya I do. Sex is all about connecting and human connection, intense eye contact is vulnerable and helps with the connection. Feels super intimate
Lmao it really depends… sometimes it’s hot, sometimes it feels like a staring contest and I just can’t take it seriously.
Definitely make eye contact. It’s the first step for us moving into tantric which we’re starting to get into but we also have pretty significant eye contact just throughout our day.
I absolutely love that shit. Intense eye contact, through every motion, through their soul. It’s hot, but to be fair the men I’ve encountered it with have done it back. It would probably be less hot if the other person couldn’t maintain it
I never used to with my now ex-husband. I started seeing someone else, a new relationship after 20 years of a shit marriage. This relationship and the new and exciting sex has me making eye contact and I love it. It’s not even something I was trying to do, it just happened that way. The last thing I wanted to do in my last marriage was look at him during sex, lol!
Meeeee I love riding him and staring into his eyes and he does the same omgggg
I love eye contact during sex. I mean, we certainly don’t need to lock eyes for the duration. But at the right moments, looking into each other’s eyes and holding the gaze for a little bit — it’s incredibly emotionally intense and connecting. It feels so intimate and just… incredible.
If the lights are on, we are
Oh my god, yes. It’so hot and sexy and intimate and did I say hot and sexy?? Bonus points: mirror!
Yes.
You mean like prolonged eye contact?
I do this a lot with my current partner, I never had with anyone prior but honestly I think it’s super hot and makes the connection stronger
I get a little shy sometimes bc he’s just so handsome. When I open my eyes and catch him looking at me I melt.
Next time I’m having a staring contest
Yes! When we do it’s the best!
Oh yes
For missionary position absolutely. Not all the time tho. But the moment right before we come together to kiss.
Im autistic I avoid eye contact like the plague, but also when it feels really good I cant keep my eyes open, its completely without choice, same as an inability to speak
PLS MAKE EYE CONTACT I gotta know you ain’t thinking of other girls, its almost irrational to have such a thought but an ex told me he used to close his eyes and think of other women when i went down on him
Yes love it. It’s very romantic and intimate with someone you love
Me and my partner both make intense eye contact depending on who’s in the dominant position at the time. Super hot, highly recommend.
I’m not a fan. It takes me out of the mood mentally because I start thinking too much about how they’re perceiving me, and not how it feels. My ex probably contributed to that by making comments about my facial expressions the first few times we did it, so maybe with a better partner I could get into it.
Eye contact during sex freaks me out, hence I always ask for a doggy.
Stop looking at me bro. We both know you’re not gonna marry Me, drop the act.
Yeap
Not prolonged, but for a few seconds yeah
Yes, it’s hot as fuck.
Yup. Especially during certain specific acts. But I make hard eye contact with people anyway
am i the only one here who has trouble keeping my eyes open during sex? 😅 i find it really hot when my partner tells me to look at him during sex, especially when i’m close, but i can only sustain it for a few seconds. like how you can’t keep your eyes open when you sneeze.
Wait … there are people out there who AREN’T looking at their partner during sex? 😮 it’s literally my favourite thing.
Every now and then. Together 14 years. It’s hot
*PROLONGED EYE CONTACT!!*
I want to see EVERYTHING so my eyes are open a good 95% of the time with any partner. Taking them in while they enjoy themself ups the pleasure factor and solidifies a memory to draw up during solo time. SO has theirs closed most of the time, but when he meets my gaze (either on his own or when I tell him to look at me) it’s the hottest thing.
I can only make eye contact with him for a few secs and then get all giddy and nervous feeling because GAWT DAUM! I usually keep my face buried in his neck or collar bone.
Hell no. Tbf I don’t make eye contact in any situation if I can help it
Sometimes, sure. Been with hubby for 20 years so hells yeah I do (we do).
I’m having the same kind of moment reading this thread as I did learning that some people don’t have an inner monologue.
(Caveat because tone is difficult in text, there’s no wrong way to have sex and I think everyone who doesn’t/can’t make or want to make eye contact is doing sex awesome.)
I have no idea how I would ever get to the sex without intense eye contact. And I don’t know how I’d turn it off during and after.
If a person hasn’t been making ec flirting, I’d assume they aren’t interested. And if they had been making ec and we’ve gotten our pants off and ec stops, I’d assume their interest dried up and we’d have a conversation. And even with lots of assurances, it would be the end of sex and I’d try to make a graceful exit. I don’t think I’d believe someone if they told me that they wanted to keep going, but kept refusing eye contact. Or if they definitely did, I’d feel like they would gladly be having sex with anybody, I just happen to be standing in front of them. Which is also my cue to leave.
To answer op, we make eye contact directly a lot. We’ve got 2 big mirrors to make eye contact with each other from all kinds of angles. Sometimes one or both will lock into our own eyes and really revel in the enjoyment.
I love holding eye contact with my fiancé when we’re being intimate. It makes things so much more intense 😍
Meeeee, if my eyes aren’t rolling to the back of my head 😂
I ask my partner to look into my eyes during coitus
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I don’t think I ever make “intense” eye contact, but my husband and I do make eye contact on and off when we’re performing oral. We think it’s hot in the moment.
If theres no trust nor emotional vulnerability i avoid eye contact.
I’m way too shy for that and I’ve been having sex with the same person for almost 6 years.
A little eye contact here and there feels really intimate and sweet — but too much and I start overthinking like, “Am I doing this right?”
I do. I don’t stare or glare at him (lol), that’d probably creep him out. But I feel I contact is part of the shared experience.
I LOVE looking into my partners eyes when we really get into it and we’re talking filth to each other 😅 it’s really intense and makes me cum harder.
My husband and I make eye contact during, he likes to see my face. Not like consistently or anything, but he’s usually making eye contact when he finishes.
Hell no don’t look at me LOL
Nah I’m staring into their soul if they’re inside me and they gotta stare back.
I def do with my husband I love it
I do and I really enjoy it, you just go to the next level of experience
This one time, we were pretty high, and just staring into each others’ eyes while going AT it. It was so intimate and intense, I feel like I saw every feeling and thought he had through his eyes. When those feelings hit, we really slowed it down, and he started to tear up a bit, and I did too, and we couldn’t bring ourselves to break the contact until it was over. That’s the only time I’ve had eye contact, at least as prolonged and intense, as that.
Hell ya I do. Sex is all about connecting and human connection, intense eye contact is vulnerable and helps with the connection. Feels super intimate
Lmao it really depends… sometimes it’s hot, sometimes it feels like a staring contest and I just can’t take it seriously.
Definitely make eye contact. It’s the first step for us moving into tantric which we’re starting to get into but we also have pretty significant eye contact just throughout our day.
I absolutely love that shit. Intense eye contact, through every motion, through their soul. It’s hot, but to be fair the men I’ve encountered it with have done it back. It would probably be less hot if the other person couldn’t maintain it
I never used to with my now ex-husband. I started seeing someone else, a new relationship after 20 years of a shit marriage. This relationship and the new and exciting sex has me making eye contact and I love it. It’s not even something I was trying to do, it just happened that way. The last thing I wanted to do in my last marriage was look at him during sex, lol!
Meeeee I love riding him and staring into his eyes and he does the same omgggg
I love eye contact during sex. I mean, we certainly don’t need to lock eyes for the duration. But at the right moments, looking into each other’s eyes and holding the gaze for a little bit — it’s incredibly emotionally intense and connecting. It feels so intimate and just… incredible.
If the lights are on, we are
Oh my god, yes. It’so hot and sexy and intimate and did I say hot and sexy?? Bonus points: mirror!
Yes.
You mean like prolonged eye contact?
I do this a lot with my current partner, I never had with anyone prior but honestly I think it’s super hot and makes the connection stronger
I get a little shy sometimes bc he’s just so handsome. When I open my eyes and catch him looking at me I melt.
Next time I’m having a staring contest
Yes! When we do it’s the best!
Oh yes
For missionary position absolutely. Not all the time tho. But the moment right before we come together to kiss.
Im autistic I avoid eye contact like the plague, but also when it feels really good I cant keep my eyes open, its completely without choice, same as an inability to speak
PLS MAKE EYE CONTACT I gotta know you ain’t thinking of other girls, its almost irrational to have such a thought but an ex told me he used to close his eyes and think of other women when i went down on him
Yes love it. It’s very romantic and intimate with someone you love
Me and my partner both make intense eye contact depending on who’s in the dominant position at the time. Super hot, highly recommend.
I’m not a fan. It takes me out of the mood mentally because I start thinking too much about how they’re perceiving me, and not how it feels. My ex probably contributed to that by making comments about my facial expressions the first few times we did it, so maybe with a better partner I could get into it.
Eye contact during sex freaks me out, hence I always ask for a doggy.
Stop looking at me bro. We both know you’re not gonna marry Me, drop the act.
Yeap
Not prolonged, but for a few seconds yeah
Yes, it’s hot as fuck.
Yup. Especially during certain specific acts. But I make hard eye contact with people anyway
am i the only one here who has trouble keeping my eyes open during sex? 😅 i find it really hot when my partner tells me to look at him during sex, especially when i’m close, but i can only sustain it for a few seconds. like how you can’t keep your eyes open when you sneeze.
Wait … there are people out there who AREN’T looking at their partner during sex? 😮 it’s literally my favourite thing.
Every now and then. Together 14 years. It’s hot
*PROLONGED EYE CONTACT!!*
I want to see EVERYTHING so my eyes are open a good 95% of the time with any partner. Taking them in while they enjoy themself ups the pleasure factor and solidifies a memory to draw up during solo time. SO has theirs closed most of the time, but when he meets my gaze (either on his own or when I tell him to look at me) it’s the hottest thing.
I can only make eye contact with him for a few secs and then get all giddy and nervous feeling because GAWT DAUM! I usually keep my face buried in his neck or collar bone.
Hell no. Tbf I don’t make eye contact in any situation if I can help it
Sometimes, sure. Been with hubby for 20 years so hells yeah I do (we do).
I’m having the same kind of moment reading this thread as I did learning that some people don’t have an inner monologue.
(Caveat because tone is difficult in text, there’s no wrong way to have sex and I think everyone who doesn’t/can’t make or want to make eye contact is doing sex awesome.)
I have no idea how I would ever get to the sex without intense eye contact. And I don’t know how I’d turn it off during and after.
If a person hasn’t been making ec flirting, I’d assume they aren’t interested. And if they had been making ec and we’ve gotten our pants off and ec stops, I’d assume their interest dried up and we’d have a conversation. And even with lots of assurances, it would be the end of sex and I’d try to make a graceful exit. I don’t think I’d believe someone if they told me that they wanted to keep going, but kept refusing eye contact. Or if they definitely did, I’d feel like they would gladly be having sex with anybody, I just happen to be standing in front of them. Which is also my cue to leave.
To answer op, we make eye contact directly a lot. We’ve got 2 big mirrors to make eye contact with each other from all kinds of angles. Sometimes one or both will lock into our own eyes and really revel in the enjoyment.
I love holding eye contact with my fiancé when we’re being intimate. It makes things so much more intense 😍
Meeeee, if my eyes aren’t rolling to the back of my head 😂
I ask my partner to look into my eyes during coitus