I (19F) have been with my boyfriend (21M) for about 8 months and he was my first ever time. We have a great sex life and communicate well but there's one thing I'm curious about.
I orgasm quite quickly only from clitoral stimulation (i have to rub myself, even when I tell my boyfriend how i like it, it doesn't feel the same even if he does everything right) usually within a couple of minutes but I have a cooldown period afterwards where everything feels way too sensitive for around 5 to 10 minutes. During that time I don't really want any more stimulation because it can feel uncomfortable rather than pleasurable
my boyfriend takes longer to orgasm than I do and I've noticed he really enjoys seeing me orgasm. I'd love to be able to enjoy more stimulation afterwards or even have multiple orgasms but my body doesn't seem to work that way.
Is there any way to become less sensitive after an orgasm or is this just something that's different from person to person? For people who experience multiple orgasms was that something that came naturally or something you learned over time?
I'd appreciate any advice