I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We met when we were 17 and 18. My mom did not allow me to date thus it was difficult for us to hang out. Im a junior in college now and she only let me hang out with him if she was around. He was fine with that he never complained and would constantly told me it was okay. We were planning to get married once I graduate next year and move out together but he lied to me a month ago.
The day he got baptized i was being very inconsiderate and i lashed out on him and Im aware i was and I apologized but I said something hurtful to him and ever since that day he told me he was very upset with me and 2 months after that happened apparently he has been drinking every single night because of what I said and then he went to go hang out with an "old middle school friend" but he was in fact not with his friend he was with a girl and he claims it is his friends "wife" and she met up with him in place of her husband because her husband could not make it. I have asked for texts proof of this meet up of him sending the address of the place to his "friend" but nothing. I love him so much he is my bestfriend ever since I was 17 he means so much to me but I dont know what to believe or what to do. Ever since that happend a month ago he is still texting me telling me that we can fix it that he promises there is no one else and he is isnt going out or doing anything out of the ordinary this past month but I dont even know what to believe. He was at the resturant with her for an hour and then lied about him being there for 2 days and then later confessed this story. I dont know what to do anymore. tl;dr