my (22f) friend (22f) only cares about “male attention” (according to her). it started when we were about 16/17, countless times i have been ignored for boys that she talks to (even for a up to a month). i try to do anything i can to somehow take up some attention span but it seems nothing ever works. she always dates people that don’t want her to see me, will complain about these people but goes back every single time. it’s been a constant cycle (quite literally has not taken a break from “talking” to someone for any time over a month). i give advice and try to be there for her as much as possible but in the end it seems my advice does not help (if it’s about talking to them or what to do, even just being there for her). i’m at my wits end with this and im truly not sure what to do as it’s only gotten so much worse. i have talked to her about it countless times and she will straight up admit to any of it. even going as far as doing things she is totally uncomfortable with. what am i supposed to do? we rarely have any confrontation and as i said i have made it a topic of conversation before but it gets brushed off until something she doesn’t like happens then it’s a whole problem, and inevitably the cycle continues. does anybody have any advice at all?


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