There's this girl in my class that's started talking to me recently. I'd only seen her around a few times and said hi before, but now recently we had a conversation and she wants to he friends. My problem is and I know it's assholish and bitchy but I kinda don't want to be friends with her. She talks a lot and it's mostly about herself, I try to be nice to everyone so when she came up and kept talking I responded positively and was interested. Thing is, my friends aren't. My friends that I've had for a long time don't like her so it's become just me and her at one side with her blabbering while the three of them continue blabbering without me. I can't include her since she doesn't understand anything they're talking about, she's a kinda recent immigrant, plus they don't enjoy talking to her. I want to talk to my friends but on the other hand when I do she starts feeling left out and strikes up another conversation with me, and I respond, isolating myself to our conversation again.
We're graduating soon and I just want to spend more time with my friends, I love talking to new people but I'd rather be with my friends since id prefer not abandoning old bonds for new ones. Also, this is just my view of it but I think she really wants to be friends with me because she loves Asia and I'm Asian. She talked today about hanging out during the summer and at first I agreed but then she started talking about how her mom would need to talk to my mom and how she would be with us during the hangout. I honestly just don't enjoy spending time with her enough to become besties so quickly. I've talked to her 3 days in total. A lot of things turn me off from her: She thinks she's super mature for her age so she wants an older mature man. She only really has interest in me and doesn't chat with my other friends like that. She just talks a lot and the only things I can reply to most of them are why? and wow. stuff like that.